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Read on the web ↗ Slow Wins The Race By Flavia Andrews As this year draws to a close, I’ve found myself returning to one simple truth— slow wins the race. Not as a cliché, but as a lived lesson. A Year of Slowing Down For a long time, I didn’t realize how deeply I was operating in survival mode. Moving quickly. Reacting. Carrying the quiet pressure of needing to keep up—with tasks, ideas, expectations, even versions of myself that no longer fit. Somewhere along the way, I began to notice the...

Read on the web ↗ Love: Devotion, Not Display By Flavia Andrews As we light the fourth candle of Advent, we arrive at Love — not the loud or sentimental kind, but the steady, faithful love that has been building quietly all along. This week carries a tenderness of its own. The waiting has deepened. The home feels fuller. The days feel closer to Christmas, and yet this candle asks us to pause once more — not to rush ahead, but to remain present to the love already surrounding us. Love, in...

Read on the web ↗ Joy: Presence, Not Tasks By Flavia Andrews Good evening. This email arrives later than expected—I was leaning into joy instead of hurrying. The third week of Advent arrives with a soft shift. The candle turns rose. The Church pauses the purple. Gaudete Sunday—rejoice—meets us not at the finish line, but right in the middle of the waiting. This week, that message met me right where I was. I spent many hours sorting through decorations and decorating the interior of our home....

Read on the web ↗ Peace: Rhythm, Not Rush By Flavia Andrews This second week of Advent invites us into peace — not as an ideal we admire, but as a rhythm we learn to practice. This message arrives a little later than I would have liked, but perhaps that’s fitting. I’ve been trying not to rush — to honor the very peace I’m writing about. Taking a step back, breathing, and pacing myself felt more aligned than hurrying for the sake of timeliness. Sometimes the practice itself becomes the lesson....

Read on the web ↗ Hope: Presence, Not Pressure By Flavia Andrews The first week of Advent always feels like a natural starting point to me. Maybe it’s because it marks the beginning of the liturgical year in the Catholic Church, or because the anticipation of Christmas and the new year brings a quiet sense of renewal to my heart. Advent becomes a moment to pause, look around, and gently ask: What would make this season feel lighter? Because let’s be honest — the busyness and rush of this time...